He Has No Idea What’s Happening
So, how does it work? In the doljabi ceremony, items representative of different futures are laid out in front of the guest of honor. Traditional items include a string for long life, a pen for a life of letters, money for prosperity, and paintbrush for artist. We also threw in a musical instrument and soccer ball, because duh. A surgeon friend snuck in some sort of medical instrument. Whatever item he picks first indicates his destiny. Like we said, no bigs.
Ready, Set …
Amy Dying With Anticipation
Much to his parents’ joy, and his immigrant grandparents’ chagrin, Alejandro purposefully and decisively chose the paintbrush.
He’s Going to Be an Artist, Guys
Now, there are all kinds of traditional sweets and dduk, or rice cakes, to be eaten at a dol. We shared those, as every guest who takes sweets home with them shares in the warm wishes expressed for the birthday boy. [Editor’s note: We love this tradition.] But most important to our Mash-Up family is feasting on food that is representative of us, our families, our cultures and our love for each other and our kid. So to celebrate our baby, the artist, we ate kimchi tacos.
We can’t wait to see what happens next.